Skip to main content

Five Faves: Picture Books About Self-Esteem

Being a kid can be hard sometimes. You're learning and growing and trying to figure out who you are. You inevitably compare yourself with others and sometimes find yourself lacking. These books are a great way to remind your child that they are unique and the things that make you different also make you special.

Most Perfect You
Written by Jazmyn Simon
Illustrated by Tamisha Anthony
Random House, 2022. Picture Book.

This story starts when Irie runs down the stairs in a pink wool hat and asks her mom if she can wear the hat today. When Momma asks Irie why she wants to wear a wool hat in July, Irie explains that she hates her big, poofy hair and she wants to be like everyone else. Momma explains "I didn't make you to be like everyone else. I made you to be you." She explains that all of Irie's traits; her eyes, skin color, hair, and more, were picked out by Momma before Irie was born because they were all of favorite things. This is a great book to remind children that they are special just the way they are and you wouldn't want them to be any different.

Free to Be Elephant Me
Written by Giles Andreae
Illustrated by Guy Parker-Rees
Orchard Books, 2020. Picture Book.

In this book, written by the creators of Giraffes Can't Dance, every elephant performs their best tricks to receive a name from Mighty Elephant. Some elephants are strong, or loud, or can jump rope, or walk on stilts. One little elephant in the back of the line, however, doesn't know what his talent is yet. When he can't do anything to impress the king, the king names him Elephant Nothing-At-All. Feeling dejected, the elephant travels to a watering hole where he meets new friends that teach him that he is gentle, and kind, and true. For those who enjoy Max Lucado's You Are Special, you will love this book.


A Penny's Worth
Written by Mark Hoffmann
Illustrated by Kimberly Wilson
Page Street Kids, 2022. Picture Book.

Hot off the minting press, Penny feels like a million bucks, until she finds out that nobody uses pennies anymore. Because of inflation, she can't even be used to buy penny candy. Quarter can be used at the arcade, and everyone likes Big Bill and Dime. Penny begins to feel dejected until she finds out that her value may not be in how she can be spent. Face up, pennies can be good luck and they are often thrown into fountains to fulfill wishes. This book will help your kids learn about money while also teaching a greater lesson about looking deeper to see the value in themselves and others.

By Davina Bell and Allison Colpoys
Scribble, 2019. Picture Book.

This book outlines all of the many ways that a person can be smart. It discusses traditional ways to be smart, like matching shapes in pairs and counting way past forty, but it also highlights non-traditional intelligence. Dancing, courage to try new things, sitting still and quiet, building, and coming up with new games. This book is a good way to explain to your child that there is more than one way to be smart.

Bird Hugs
By Ged Adamson
Two Lions, 2020. Picture Book.

The protagonist of this book is Bernard, a bird was born with long arms. When he was a baby he didn't realize that he was any different than anyone else. But one day he realizes that he can't fly like the other birds. Feeling embarrassed, he tries to make his wings smaller, then tries to make them into an accessory, and finally failing to do all that, he leaves dejected. Until he sees an orangutan that's feeling sad and he gives him a big hug. The orangutan feels better and all of the sudden there's a line for the bird's hugs. This title will help remind kids that even things they don't like about themselves can make them special.





Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Stand Tall by Joan Bauer

Stand Tall By Siena Siegel by Joan Bauer Putnam, 2002, 182 pgs Realistic Fiction Tree is 12 years old and over 6 feet tall. That would be great if he were a basketball player, but he is not. Dealing with his unusual size is not Tree's only challenge. Tree's parents have recently gone through a divorce, and his grandfather has had his leg amputated as the result of an old Vietnam War injury. The strength of this book is the characterizations. All of the main characters are dimensional and sympathetic. Bauer sets the characters in real and often funny family situations. Best of all is the character of Tree. He is boy with a heart to match his stature. This is a great book for boys or girls ages 9-12, as a read aloud or for individual reading. This book could also be a good Rx book for children whose families are going through divorce, or for anyone who feels like they don't fit in.

Review: The New Girl

The New Girl By Cassandra Calin New York: Graphix, 2024. Comic. 261 pages. 12-year-old Lia and her family have just moved from Romania to Montreal, and she's doing her best to keep up with the changes. But, she's homesick. She misses the rest of her family, her friends, and her favorite Romanian treats. She doesn't speak French and her English is shaky, which makes it hard to make friends, even in her international immersion class. And she's dealing with super painful menstrual cramps every month. But before long, Lia starts to hit her stride. She befriends the other bilingual girls in her class, she gets a spot as the artist for her school's magazine, and even has a new crush -- Julien. Though she may be the new girl, Lia is starting to fit in. This slice of life graphic novel is an adorable choice for middle grade readers and young teens. Lia is a likable protagonist and readers will have little difficulty relating to her adjustment to school. The text speaks to a...

Review: Cincinnati Lee, Curse Breaker

  Cincinnati Lee, Curse Breaker By Heidi Heilig New York: Greenwillow Books, 2025. Fiction. 291 pages. Thanks to Cincinnati Lee's no good, dirty rotten, artifact stealing great great great grandfather, Cincinnati's family is now cursed and Cincinnati feels like it's up to her to break the curse. Which involves trying to steal the artifacts back from museums that her grandfather robbed from graves and archeological sites around the world and return them to their countries of origin. But when Cincinnati's first artifact stealing mission goes awry, she decides it might be more effective to steal an all-powerful artifact herself that she can use to break the curse - The Spear of Destiny. Unfortunately her race for the spear will pit her against art smugglers and thieves intent on finding the ancient artifact themselves. If you are looking for an Indiana Jones read-alike, this is the perfect for you! Heavy on the adventure with similar levels of mysticism to those seen in th...